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10-01-2014, 08:25 PM
How to Have a Great Personality
Have you ever had those moments when you just wished you could have more confidence and just be the greatest person you could be. Ever get jealous of people who are successful in all their relationships? This is because this person has a great personality, and you can too
Confidence is key. If you are a shy person then figure out what you are afraid of, and then realize that when you are confident there is nothing to be afraid of. If you are scared of talking to people, find someone you are comfortable around and have a conversation with them, then realise that having a conversation with someone you do not know as well is exactly the same. Reassure yourself everyday that you are amazing.
Be humorous and lighthearted. People will thank you for bringing some fun into their world.
Always be nice. This is the most important step. No matter who you are, if you are nice, the only reason a person can dislike you is if they are jealous of you. Never be rude to people even if you are really worked up - instead write your feelings about them down and then tear it up. People don't like mean people because it makes the person feel as though that person could be mean to them. Be nice to everyone.
Always be cool, calm and collected. In every single situation you are in you always have to remember to keep your cool. Never start arguments unless it is for a strong argument and you have good argumentative skills. Never argue with people you would like to remain friends with. If you are feeling a little nervous (maybe around a new friend ) take a deep breath, forget yourself and just have some fun.
Be comfortable with yourself always. Awkward situations always make you feel uncomfortable. However, there is an easy way to prevent this from happening. If you are alone with a person you hardly know or even with a group of people you hardly know. Don't worry about not having anything in common with them, just make light conversation, be friendly and have good eye contact and body language.
Be Happy. Try to always look on the bright side, be positive and smile.(unless you are in a situation where being happy would be rude, e.g funeral). No one can resist a happy person. This doesn't mean be fake, or feel you have to hide your feelings. If something's really bothering you, never feel you have to fake a smile, but make sure you try to see the best in things and show people that you're a happy person. Wearing a smile on your face is the perfect cover and will instantly attract people to you
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"Never get caught up in being "popular", people will see what you are doing and lose respect for you. you. A real popular person is a person who has a great personality and does not try hard to become popular. Having a dependable group of friends is always the key to getting more friends because you will always have these people to fall back on. .
Think about what makes you respect other people, if you want to be respected. Wear clothes that are stylish and are within your comfort zone. Avoid clothes that would only appeal to a particular group of people. Say things that are smart and witty but never act dumb that just makes you look incapable of holding a conversation.
Never get too caught up in yourself. It is okay to believe you are the greatest. However, trust me, not many people are going to agree (That is not an insult, it is just that everyone thinks that they, themselves are the greatest). Never show off, it just looks silly and normally makes you look as though you have lost your cool. Be modest around people, but always accept compliments and give compliments as well.
Be open to relationships. Never pass somebody off for being "not cool enough" or "too ugly" because normally these people are amazing and being friends with them will bring so much happiness to your life. Never think that just because somebody is a particular "type" of person (e.g emo, girly, preppy, weird, nerdy) people are going to think you are that type of person as well.
Have you ever had those moments when you just wished you could have more confidence and just be the greatest person you could be. Ever get jealous of people who are successful in all their relationships? This is because this person has a great personality, and you can too
Confidence is key. If you are a shy person then figure out what you are afraid of, and then realize that when you are confident there is nothing to be afraid of. If you are scared of talking to people, find someone you are comfortable around and have a conversation with them, then realise that having a conversation with someone you do not know as well is exactly the same. Reassure yourself everyday that you are amazing.
Be humorous and lighthearted. People will thank you for bringing some fun into their world.
Always be nice. This is the most important step. No matter who you are, if you are nice, the only reason a person can dislike you is if they are jealous of you. Never be rude to people even if you are really worked up - instead write your feelings about them down and then tear it up. People don't like mean people because it makes the person feel as though that person could be mean to them. Be nice to everyone.
Always be cool, calm and collected. In every single situation you are in you always have to remember to keep your cool. Never start arguments unless it is for a strong argument and you have good argumentative skills. Never argue with people you would like to remain friends with. If you are feeling a little nervous (maybe around a new friend ) take a deep breath, forget yourself and just have some fun.
Be comfortable with yourself always. Awkward situations always make you feel uncomfortable. However, there is an easy way to prevent this from happening. If you are alone with a person you hardly know or even with a group of people you hardly know. Don't worry about not having anything in common with them, just make light conversation, be friendly and have good eye contact and body language.
Be Happy. Try to always look on the bright side, be positive and smile.(unless you are in a situation where being happy would be rude, e.g funeral). No one can resist a happy person. This doesn't mean be fake, or feel you have to hide your feelings. If something's really bothering you, never feel you have to fake a smile, but make sure you try to see the best in things and show people that you're a happy person. Wearing a smile on your face is the perfect cover and will instantly attract people to you
.
"Never get caught up in being "popular", people will see what you are doing and lose respect for you. you. A real popular person is a person who has a great personality and does not try hard to become popular. Having a dependable group of friends is always the key to getting more friends because you will always have these people to fall back on. .
Think about what makes you respect other people, if you want to be respected. Wear clothes that are stylish and are within your comfort zone. Avoid clothes that would only appeal to a particular group of people. Say things that are smart and witty but never act dumb that just makes you look incapable of holding a conversation.
Never get too caught up in yourself. It is okay to believe you are the greatest. However, trust me, not many people are going to agree (That is not an insult, it is just that everyone thinks that they, themselves are the greatest). Never show off, it just looks silly and normally makes you look as though you have lost your cool. Be modest around people, but always accept compliments and give compliments as well.
Be open to relationships. Never pass somebody off for being "not cool enough" or "too ugly" because normally these people are amazing and being friends with them will bring so much happiness to your life. Never think that just because somebody is a particular "type" of person (e.g emo, girly, preppy, weird, nerdy) people are going to think you are that type of person as well.