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02-08-2014, 11:41 PM
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A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage
They were a loving couple and the boy was the apple of their eyes.
When the boy was around two years old,
one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open
He was late for work so he asked the wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard.
The mother, preoccupied in the kitchen,
totally forgot the matter.
The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle and, fascinated with its color,
drank it all.
It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant
for adults in small dosages.
When the child collapsed, the mother hurried him to the hospital,
where he died. The mother was stunned.
She was terrified how to face her husband.
When the distraught father came to the hospital
and saw the dead child
he looked at his wife and uttered just four words.
?What do you think were the four words
"The husband just said "I Love You Darling
The husband's totally unexpected reaction is proactive behavior
The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life.
There is no point in finding fault with the mother. Besides,
if only he have taken time to keep the bottle away,
this will not have happened. No
point in attaching blame. She had also lost her only child.
What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband
.That is what he gave her
.
.
Sometimes we spend time asking who is responsible or who to blame,
whether in a relationship,
the people we know in a job or with
We miss out some warmth in human relationship
in giving each other support. After all, shouldn't forgiving someone we love
be in the world to do the easiest thing
A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage
They were a loving couple and the boy was the apple of their eyes.
When the boy was around two years old,
one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open
He was late for work so he asked the wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard.
The mother, preoccupied in the kitchen,
totally forgot the matter.
The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle and, fascinated with its color,
drank it all.
It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant
for adults in small dosages.
When the child collapsed, the mother hurried him to the hospital,
where he died. The mother was stunned.
She was terrified how to face her husband.
When the distraught father came to the hospital
and saw the dead child
he looked at his wife and uttered just four words.
?What do you think were the four words
"The husband just said "I Love You Darling
The husband's totally unexpected reaction is proactive behavior
The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life.
There is no point in finding fault with the mother. Besides,
if only he have taken time to keep the bottle away,
this will not have happened. No
point in attaching blame. She had also lost her only child.
What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband
.That is what he gave her
.
.
Sometimes we spend time asking who is responsible or who to blame,
whether in a relationship,
the people we know in a job or with
We miss out some warmth in human relationship
in giving each other support. After all, shouldn't forgiving someone we love
be in the world to do the easiest thing