Roma
29-08-2005, 02:47 AM
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A young wife sat on a sofa on a hot humid day,
drinking iced tea and visiting with her Mother.
As they talked about life, about marriage,
about the responsibilities of life and the
obligations of adulthood, the mother clinked the
ice cubes in her glass thoughtfully and turned a
clear, sober glance upon her daughter.
"Don't forget your Sisters," she advised, swirling the
tea leaves to the bottom of her glass." They'll be
more important as you get older. No matter how much
you love your husband, no matter how much you love the
children you may have, you are still going to need
Sisters. Remember to go places with them now and then;
do things with them. And remember that "Sisters" also
means your girlfriends, your daughters, and other
women relatives too. You'll need other women. Women
always do."
"What a funny piece of advice!" the
young woman
thought. 'Haven't I Just gotten married? Haven't I
just joined the couple-world? I'm now a married woman,
for goodness sake! A grownup. Surely my husband and
the family we may start will be all
I need to make my life worthwhile! But she listened to
her Mother.
She kept contact with her "Sisters" and made more women
friends each year.
As the years tumbled by, one after another, she
gradually came to understand that her Mom really knew
what she was talking about. As time and nature work
their changes and their mysteries upon a woman,
Sisters are the mainstays of her life.
Here is what I've learned:
Times passes.
Life happens.
Distance separates.
Children grow up.
Love waxes and wanes.
Hearts break.
Careers end.
Jobs come and go.
Parents die.
Colleagues forget favors.
Men don't call
when they say they will.
BUT Sisters are there, no matter how much time and how
many miles are between you. A Sister is never farther
away than needing her can reach.
When you have to walk that lonesome valley, and you
have to walk it for yourself, your Sisters will be on
the valley's rim, cheering you on, praying for you,
pulling for you, intervening on your behalf, and
waiting with open arms at the valley's end. Sometimes,
they will even break the rules and walk beside you. Or
come in and carry you out.
My mother, sister, sister-in-laws, aunts, and
"girlfriends", bless my life!
The world wouldn't be the same without them, and
neither would I. When we began this adventure called
womanhood, we had no idea of the incredible joys or
sorrows that lay ahead.
Nor did we know how much we would need each other.
Every day, we
need each other still.
This advice is for the men, too.
You need brothers!!
A young wife sat on a sofa on a hot humid day,
drinking iced tea and visiting with her Mother.
As they talked about life, about marriage,
about the responsibilities of life and the
obligations of adulthood, the mother clinked the
ice cubes in her glass thoughtfully and turned a
clear, sober glance upon her daughter.
"Don't forget your Sisters," she advised, swirling the
tea leaves to the bottom of her glass." They'll be
more important as you get older. No matter how much
you love your husband, no matter how much you love the
children you may have, you are still going to need
Sisters. Remember to go places with them now and then;
do things with them. And remember that "Sisters" also
means your girlfriends, your daughters, and other
women relatives too. You'll need other women. Women
always do."
"What a funny piece of advice!" the
young woman
thought. 'Haven't I Just gotten married? Haven't I
just joined the couple-world? I'm now a married woman,
for goodness sake! A grownup. Surely my husband and
the family we may start will be all
I need to make my life worthwhile! But she listened to
her Mother.
She kept contact with her "Sisters" and made more women
friends each year.
As the years tumbled by, one after another, she
gradually came to understand that her Mom really knew
what she was talking about. As time and nature work
their changes and their mysteries upon a woman,
Sisters are the mainstays of her life.
Here is what I've learned:
Times passes.
Life happens.
Distance separates.
Children grow up.
Love waxes and wanes.
Hearts break.
Careers end.
Jobs come and go.
Parents die.
Colleagues forget favors.
Men don't call
when they say they will.
BUT Sisters are there, no matter how much time and how
many miles are between you. A Sister is never farther
away than needing her can reach.
When you have to walk that lonesome valley, and you
have to walk it for yourself, your Sisters will be on
the valley's rim, cheering you on, praying for you,
pulling for you, intervening on your behalf, and
waiting with open arms at the valley's end. Sometimes,
they will even break the rules and walk beside you. Or
come in and carry you out.
My mother, sister, sister-in-laws, aunts, and
"girlfriends", bless my life!
The world wouldn't be the same without them, and
neither would I. When we began this adventure called
womanhood, we had no idea of the incredible joys or
sorrows that lay ahead.
Nor did we know how much we would need each other.
Every day, we
need each other still.
This advice is for the men, too.
You need brothers!!