Can we still trust people around us ?

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I started my issue with this Question for I know how much we do ask ourselves that specific Question most of the times ,,

Our natural tendency is to trust because we trust our parents and loved ones, It feels good to really trust, It is also an essential component of love and an important test. Love without trust is dependence masquerading as love ..


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When trust is broken, the feeling is that a part of us dies, is hollowed out. Not to trust is abnormal and is the natural result of bitter or even traumatic life experiences ..

distrust is not induced by our own thoughts, nor by some device or machination of ours but by life's sad circumstances ..


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To continue not to trust anyone is to reward the people who wronged us and made us distrustful in the first place. These people have long abandoned us and still they have a great influence on our lives ..

I've read that Trusting releases enormous amounts of mental energy, which could be better invested elsewhere within us ,,


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You have to know WHOM to trust, you have to know HOW to trust and you have to know HOW to CONFIRM the existence of a functioning trust ..

These words are dedicated to the people who loses Faith in themselves and others so easily , yet i'm not encouraging to trust anyone blindly ,, but to have the ability to trust our dear ones in order for us to savour life trust worthy


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to build a trust there are 3 principles as following:
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so - do u trust easyly or u cant trust anymore, because something happend to u???????????

waiting for ur opinion

[rose rani]

thank you for this nice tpoic

for me i do not trust anyone easilly
i need to take time

[Try To Reach]

an Informative thread indeed

thanx dear Naseem

[Dr.future]

Thanx Naseem

When it comes to trust factor , It has to be there whatsoever.

You know in this life you don't know what will happened to you.
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It is better to keep your chin up. To not trust at all is a difficult job

which means that you won't even trust your close friends or family.

So, I think you have to balance your trust and you have to know

to whom you give trust and how much I have to trust you?

All in all , we have to trust or at least trust has to be there and it is

for the sake of time and your close relationships. For me I will trust

and I have to train myself to trust with caution.

Thank you sister

wish you the best

[simple.dreams]

I don't trust anyone

cuz no body deserve


thank u , ur topics r so nice

^_^

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really I appreciate it

[BloumagrieT]

" I don't trust others so easily "

A word which we hear here and there from all sorts of people

People who become victims of their kindness , impulsive atittude or misjudging others

I think they should take the blame cause in life there is no place

for such kindness with no intelligence and of course there is no place

for a person who acts before he/she thinks nor a person who judges people

with their words before their actions

Trust is a precious treasure which you can't bless any one with it

with out being very cautious about them

نسيم

My sweet sister

Life is full of people who deserve to be blessed by your trust

and the opposite there are people who don't desreve that bless

It's up to you to decide

Thanks dear for such thread

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[الواثقة بالله]

You r too kind

thanks

SOosOo

[postgraduate]

Thanks .It is a useful thread indeed

[Try To Reach]

beautiful

and need more discussions I guess

maybe we come back again

but for the moment

let me say this

I think some people need to be trust sometimes

or every thing will be mess with them

it differs from person to another

from a situation to another also

but some times you don't have choice

you either trust or NO

really crucial issue

thanx for this door open dear

نسيم

[amy-abha]

nice topic thaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaanks

[ريما الحسين]

in fact , I can't trust with any person or I know him \ her for the first time

I must to take time in order to I can trust at him \ her

the hardest thing when the trust is broken between the friends

نسيم

nice thread

thanks alot

I'm waiting more

[أميرة بأخلاقها@]

nice thread

thanks Naseem for sharing us

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U r welcome


cheers

[godey]

im trust just near people

thank you brother

[ام مشاري]

thanks alot for this topic
Ithink trust is too difficult at this time
because everyone is thinking of himself

[TYRA]

First of all, thanks for bringing this topic up
As to trusting, I believe that it is to hard to trust anyone because it is rare to find someone who is trustworthy in this world