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مشاهدة النسخة كاملة : Apologizing and Reconciling



Instigator
16-09-2005, 10:14 PM
Apologizing and Reconciling

At the end of the conversation, Jeff and Nancy
:have a short argument. It ends like this


!Anna: Listen you two, stop arguing. Look at me
.I can't work at all because you are driving me crazy

Jeff: Okay, okay. I'm sorry, Nancy. Tell
.you what. Let's go out to dinner. I'll pay

!Nancy: But you're broke

!Jeff: All right, you pay



Notice that Jeff does two things. First, he
."apologizes to Nancy. He says " I'm sorry
Then, reconciles with her. This means that
he offres to do something nice for her -to
take her out to dinner- so that she will not
.be angry anymore

:Here are some expressions you can use to apologize
.I'm sorry-
.I apologize-
.Please forgive me-
.I beg your pardon-


.That is it and I hope you all like it but
do me a favour if you have a similar
expression, please add it. Your addition
.is deeply appreciated

اسيــ حبه ــرة
16-09-2005, 11:48 PM
Okay ...

I don't have anything now

but as soon as I have something

I'll make sure to put it here...

because this is a wounderful post

:pYou must write books

Thanx soooooo much

Really gr8 effort ... God bless you

still_alive
18-09-2005, 08:30 AM
thank you so much brother for this so interesting topic

we all need to know how to apologize in a good way

well, please bro allow me to add a good article I read talks about the same subject.


thanks again brother and please keep it up



.Your sis

Instigator
18-09-2005, 03:13 PM
,Dear sister Aseerat Hoboh
.I am waiting your addition
.Thanks for your sweet and encouraging words
.Thanks a lot for passing by and comment
.Keep it up

Instigator
18-09-2005, 03:23 PM
,Dear sister still_alive
we all need to know more about how
.to use useful things in different situations
Well, you are allowed to do so
.and we are all waiting that article

.Thanks for passing by and comment

زهرة وفى
18-09-2005, 07:11 PM
your topics is very perfect
thanks darling and we will waiting your new one
without you, the club is nothing with respct for my daling member
i miss you

اسيــ حبه ــرة
18-09-2005, 08:32 PM
Hi again

Maybe we can say

"Excuse me"

:p That's all

still_alive
18-09-2005, 11:34 PM
[align=left]thank you brother

Here's the article:

How to SayYou're Sorry!

In every relationship there will be occasional misunderstandings
and hurt feelings. Sometimes we are the one who hurt another person sometimes we are the one who has been hurt. Sometimes both people have become very angry at each other, or both feel hurt.



Hurt feelings can be the result of a slip of the tongue, a misunderstanding, or a deed committed in bad judgment. Sometimes feelings are hurt deliberately in the heat of anger and regretted later.



If we were the guilty party, we might regret what we said the instant we let the hurtful remark out of our mouths. We might want to apologize right away, but some of us find apologizing about anything extremely difficult, almost impossible.



Sometimes the reason we don’t apologize is because we are convinced that the other person totally deserved our angry outburst. Sometimes the reason we don’t apologize is because we have absolutely no idea that we hurt the other person. And sometimes we apologize very profusely, but we don’t really mean it.



When you sincerely apologize to a friend, it means that you regret causing the other person emotional pain, and you want to work on repairing the friendship.



If you have said or done something that hurt your friend, it is important to acknowledge your friend’s painful emotions. You can say something like, “I’m so sorry you feel hurt because of what I said. I didn’t mean to hurt you. Let’s talk about what happened.”



In some relationships, hurt feelings and problems are never dealt with. Instead, they get “swept under the rug”. These relationships may look polite on the surface and they may even be long-lived, but they are not really very intimate. There is no deep sharing between the two people and there is no ability to be honest.



If one, or both of you, are feeling very angry with the other, put off your in-depth discussion until both of you are to be calm and levelheaded. But apologize to your friend sincerely as soon as you can.



Once an apology for a particular incident has been extended and accepted, don’t go back and revisit old battles the next time you have a disagreement. Take care of each incident as it comes up and don’t nurse old resentments[/center]



This article by Royane Real is taken from her new book “How You Can Have All the Friends You Want"

ابوعلي
19-09-2005, 01:36 AM
sorry I nothing to add

thanks bro

Instigator
20-09-2005, 03:08 PM
,Dear sister Wafa
I missed you, too
.You are not availble online as usual
?Where have you been lately

.Thanks a lot for your nice words and passing by

Instigator
20-09-2005, 03:10 PM
,Dear sister Aseerah
.thanks for passing by again and addition
.Your addition is deeply appreciated
.Keep it up

Instigator
20-09-2005, 03:12 PM
,Dear still_alive
.it is really great information to read
.Thanks a lot for sharing that great article

.I hope to see more from you
.Keep it up

Instigator
20-09-2005, 03:14 PM
,Dear big brother Abo Ali
.it is great to read this post
.Thanks a lot for passing by and comment

enigma
20-09-2005, 11:32 PM
[align=right]Apologizing so often is a habit I dislike.I rather be safe than sorry
But if I find myself in a position where I have to admit my mistake I think a true , sincere and honest " sorry " will do[/center]

Instigator
21-09-2005, 02:45 PM
,Dear Enigma
.I respect and appreciate your point of view
.So, it depends on everyone's personality

.Thanks for passing by and comment