A question needs to be answered honestly

[عبادي1984]

Hi girls and guys .... I came to you all with an important question for me:smile (73): , but every body should answer it honestly , okey? my question is: what is the first thing that comes to your mind when someone hurts your feeling? is it : 1- thinking of a way to revenge on him or her :smile (70): 2- forgiving him or her :small (371): . 3- trying to find out why he or she did that :smile (73): . 4- breaking with him or her emmidiatly :smile (16): . 5 - giving him or her another chance. :smile (83): I have numbered all these cases in order to chose one of them easily. (I know that may every body remambering some bad memories now:girl face (191):: , so , I am so sorry if I hurt your feelings my friends, and I hop you are going to choes number 2 to deal with me .. I LOVE YOU ALL :smile (101):

[عبادي1984]

? hello >> any body home

[fhoodz]

i usually try to ignore him
thanks

[BloumagrieT]

It depends on who is that someone

If This someone is close and a friend I'll forgive and give excuses

for that behaviour . If it continues , I'll ask her for the reasons

But

If that someone is no one or somebody who is not that close to me

I'll ignore cause it won't hurt me

Thanks Abadi

[rose rani]

it depends in the situation that i have
sometime ignoring is the best thing to do and some time asking for the reason is also good way but if this person continues hurting me i am ganna stop her or himit depends in the situation that i have

[عبادي1984]

thanks guys for your replying ... I really like it .. but the only thing I wish got it from you all is : HOW CAN YOU HAVE THE ABILITY TO IGNORE ? because for me I can not , I must get apology or I will die :smile (69): you guys are lucky, congratulations to all of you ..

[فـيصـل]

helllllllllllllo abadi

i have an answer will be fit

if someone ignore u ir say something wrong about or understand something wrong


the first thing
go to him/her and ask him/her
what's going on with u man
what are u talking about
surely in respect way

then he will tell u everything .....about him/her
which is mean that u find the solution for that


and sometime for some people

i said some people

for thired time some people
they are deserve to ingone them to learn from their mistakes



that's all


thank u abadiiii
and
see in another topic

[عبادي1984]

ya habibi ya faisel looooool >> thanks dear see you brother