ريما الحسين
12-12-2009, 10:45 PM
If another person is going to love you, that person already loves you and there's nothing you need to do to win that love. If people tell you the reason they dont love you is because you dont do something for them, like obey them or meet their expectations, the sad truth is that they'll not love you when you follow their commands or meet those expectations, such love is conditional and people who offer conditional love want to control you, the moment that they give their love without condition is the moment you are free, but this isn't what they want, So when you please someone in order to get his or her love, you'll soon discover that that love isn't worth having, or that new condition have been added for you to meet before you are loved, you neglect to acknowledge the love that already exists.
When we love we wanna love freely and expect nothing in return....and vise versa...
The person who loves you loves you because he/she loves you and that's it, no further explanation make sense of love anyway. When there's a powerful reason, a burning need for someone to love you then the love that results is precarious and can suddenly disappear, the people who cling to you may make you feel secure, even powerful at 1st, but in time their love will smother you and you'll reject them.
The people who rescue you will end up controlling you, and you'll come to hate urself for being weak and susceptible to being bought off so cheaply.
The people who flatter you act on the belief that you cannot tell the difference between real love and fawning, they insult your intelligence, and you only believe them when you are desperately insecure.
The love that is most powerful exists for itself, without reasons, conditions, or excuses.
When you find someone who loves you because of the person you are, the way you do things, your humor, your personality, or because this person likes the way he or she feels about him-self or herself in your presence, be true to this person, this person mirrors your best.
Regards
When we love we wanna love freely and expect nothing in return....and vise versa...
The person who loves you loves you because he/she loves you and that's it, no further explanation make sense of love anyway. When there's a powerful reason, a burning need for someone to love you then the love that results is precarious and can suddenly disappear, the people who cling to you may make you feel secure, even powerful at 1st, but in time their love will smother you and you'll reject them.
The people who rescue you will end up controlling you, and you'll come to hate urself for being weak and susceptible to being bought off so cheaply.
The people who flatter you act on the belief that you cannot tell the difference between real love and fawning, they insult your intelligence, and you only believe them when you are desperately insecure.
The love that is most powerful exists for itself, without reasons, conditions, or excuses.
When you find someone who loves you because of the person you are, the way you do things, your humor, your personality, or because this person likes the way he or she feels about him-self or herself in your presence, be true to this person, this person mirrors your best.
Regards