Petunia
19-12-2009, 09:41 PM
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Aslam 3likum brotheres and sisters
I have read this artical about listening tips for effective from one site
and then I would like to share it with you..so enjoy reading it all
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You ARE listening when
. . .
You come quietly into my private world and let me be me
You really try to understand me even when I'm not making much sense
You grasp my point of view even when it's against your own sincere convictions
You realize that the hour I took from you has left you a bit tired and drained
You allow me the dignity of making my own decisions even though you think they may be wrong
You do not take my problem from me, but allow me to deal with it in my own way
You hold back your desire to give me good advice
You do not offer me religious solace when you sense I am not ready for it
You give me enough room to discover for myself what is really going on
You pay attention and acknowledge my portion of the
conversation
You accept my gift of gratitude by telling me how good
it makes you feel to know you have been helpful
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You are NOT listening to me when
. . .
You do not care about me
You say you understand before you know me well enough
You have an answer for my problem before I've
finished telling you what my problem is
You cut me off before I finish speaking
You finish my sentence for me
You find me boring and don't tell me so
You feel critical of my vocabulary, grammar or accent
You are dying to tell me something
You tell me about your experience making mine seem
unimportant
You are communicating to someone else in the room
You refuse my thanks by saying you haven't really done anything . . .
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Hope you all liked it and got benefits from it
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Aslam 3likum brotheres and sisters
I have read this artical about listening tips for effective from one site
and then I would like to share it with you..so enjoy reading it all
http://www.al-wed.com/pic-vb/135.gif
You ARE listening when
. . .
You come quietly into my private world and let me be me
You really try to understand me even when I'm not making much sense
You grasp my point of view even when it's against your own sincere convictions
You realize that the hour I took from you has left you a bit tired and drained
You allow me the dignity of making my own decisions even though you think they may be wrong
You do not take my problem from me, but allow me to deal with it in my own way
You hold back your desire to give me good advice
You do not offer me religious solace when you sense I am not ready for it
You give me enough room to discover for myself what is really going on
You pay attention and acknowledge my portion of the
conversation
You accept my gift of gratitude by telling me how good
it makes you feel to know you have been helpful
http://www.al-wed.com/pic-vb/135.gif
You are NOT listening to me when
. . .
You do not care about me
You say you understand before you know me well enough
You have an answer for my problem before I've
finished telling you what my problem is
You cut me off before I finish speaking
You finish my sentence for me
You find me boring and don't tell me so
You feel critical of my vocabulary, grammar or accent
You are dying to tell me something
You tell me about your experience making mine seem
unimportant
You are communicating to someone else in the room
You refuse my thanks by saying you haven't really done anything . . .
http://www.al-wed.com/pic-vb/135.gif
Hope you all liked it and got benefits from it
http://alsareha.net/vb/images/smilies/thau.gif..