rose rani
19-08-2010, 10:30 PM
hi all
I've read this stroy and
I like to share it with you
A group of alumni, highly established in their careers,
Go together to visit their old university professor.
Conversation soon turned into complaints about stress in work and life. Offering his guests coffee. The professor went to the kitchen, and returned with a large pot of coffee and an assortment of cups. Porcelain, plastic, glass, crystal, some plain looking , some expensive, some exquisite. He told the guests to
Help themselves to the coffee. After everyone had a cup of coffee in hand, The professor said: '' if you noticed all the nice looking expensive cups have been taken up, leaving behind the plain and the cheap ones. While it is normal for you to want only the best for yourselves, that is the source of your problems and stress. Be assured that the cup adds no quality to the coffee. In most cases; it is just more expensive, and some cases even hides what we drink, what all of you really wanted was coffee not the cup. But you consciously went for the best cups…
And then began eyeing each other's cups to see who had the best one.
Now consider this
Life is the coffee, the jobs, money and position in society are the cups. They are just tools to hold and contain life and the type of cup we have does not define, nor change the quality of life we live. Sometimes by concentrating only on the cup, we fail to enjoy the coffee. Savor the coffee not the cup.
The happiest people do not have the best of everything, they just make the best of
everything.
Live simply
Speak kindly
Car deeply
Love generously
I've read this stroy and
I like to share it with you
A group of alumni, highly established in their careers,
Go together to visit their old university professor.
Conversation soon turned into complaints about stress in work and life. Offering his guests coffee. The professor went to the kitchen, and returned with a large pot of coffee and an assortment of cups. Porcelain, plastic, glass, crystal, some plain looking , some expensive, some exquisite. He told the guests to
Help themselves to the coffee. After everyone had a cup of coffee in hand, The professor said: '' if you noticed all the nice looking expensive cups have been taken up, leaving behind the plain and the cheap ones. While it is normal for you to want only the best for yourselves, that is the source of your problems and stress. Be assured that the cup adds no quality to the coffee. In most cases; it is just more expensive, and some cases even hides what we drink, what all of you really wanted was coffee not the cup. But you consciously went for the best cups…
And then began eyeing each other's cups to see who had the best one.
Now consider this
Life is the coffee, the jobs, money and position in society are the cups. They are just tools to hold and contain life and the type of cup we have does not define, nor change the quality of life we live. Sometimes by concentrating only on the cup, we fail to enjoy the coffee. Savor the coffee not the cup.
The happiest people do not have the best of everything, they just make the best of
everything.
Live simply
Speak kindly
Car deeply
Love generously