before or after marriage

I would like to write about sensitive topic and that’s really happens in our societies specially in these days

Love, the great feeling which anyone hopes to feel it. It's the feeling of care, sacrifice and every kind of beauty that ur mind, can imagine could be replaced under the word, love!
But which love, do u think lasts for ever, Is it the love before, marriage where both the couples know each other and then get's married or the love which come's after marriage. most of the Saudis let say gulf people marry without knowing each other,
Some people, say Love before marriage is the best and it's the one that last forever but some say the other way, Is the best where every partner know's each other while they are married.
Which one do u vote for, love before marriage or after marriage?

I read about some love stories happened in the era of the Prophet Mohamed peas be upon him I mean love before marriage
I know there is no comparing between our era and his era
Appreciate your participation

ammmmmmmmmmm
I saw allot of couple love each other after marriage
and some of them has succeeded and some other are failed
but I saw a couple love each other before marriage
and failed I do not know why maybe the real life was not
expected as they thought
whatever
my point of view
I thing the contuniouse of real love and the
marriage succeeded is fate or destiny made by Allah
so the love before marriage if they failed
it will be just adding more pain
and thaaaaaaaanks so much

so the love before marriage if they failed
it will be just adding more pain


3red line under this sentence agree with you
Appreciate your comment
welcome pretty

my point of view
i agree with you
the real love come after marriage
and if you failed in your love this is your fate and allah test your faith
but the love before, i thing a few people succeeded.. just
and this topic is very sensitive but i say thank you my sister

i does not make any diffrence
what matter is how honest they love each other i guess

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المشاركة الأصلية كتبت بواسطة &رنيم&

my point of view
i agree with you
the real love come after marriage
and if you failed in your love this is your fate and allah test your faith
but the love before, i thing a few people succeeded.. just
and this topic is very sensitive but i say thank you my sister

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LoooooL

thank you my sister ..... my name is Ejtma3i not Ejtima3iah
any way thanks for your comment
you are right in these days regarding love before marrige a few people are succeeded

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المشاركة الأصلية كتبت بواسطة motyri

i does not make any diffrence
what matter is how honest they love each other i guess

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Actually I have no suitable words to express my thanks
Wallah it’s the best comment in this topic
Thanks a lot

thanks my frnd

okay now is my sweeeeeeeeet comment

http://forum.brg8.com/images/smilies...edding_prv.gif


let's see
http://t0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:A...Y__O1vwOKzK68o
bro Ejetme3y there is 2 expectations 4 love befor marraje

1- If u mean that " the lover know his beloved but they in reallity don't contact i mean dont talk to each other ...... an' plz ejetma3y don't laugh at this point coz..... it maybe their love grows from their childhood and existed to their adulthood >>>>>> for example, my brother loved my cousin from their childhood but when she became an adult i mean in the age of marrage she agreed a proposel of marrige an' really it was a huge shock that my brother ever recevied wallahy it was so so hard on him ....don't know what happened to him when he knew her engagement regarding to that she also shared him the love I mean..... puting his first letter every where an' in every thing also she wrote it in her hand an' so on......we all knew her feelings toward my brother
an' my brother declared his willing to get marrige from her to the whole family ,but it didn't work
>>>>> but wallahy they never talked to each other
an' now she's preparing for her wedding from that man....an' my poor brother trying to forget her
wish the best life 4 her an' 4 my brother
in contrast, my cousin loves his cousin from their childhood an' at last they got marrage>>>>hahahaa what this lovely family


So , i think this kind of love may last an' secceed an' may not

2-the second one is, if she\he knew each other from the internet or anything like that i entirelly don't agree with this point an' i'm sure this kind of love won't last or existe ever ever ever

i agree with the love after marrage
an' if they wanna know each other as well there is that period after the engagement an' befor the marrage
i think it's engh to gave all of the the chance to know each other

http://t2.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:A...2nrR8M6CPF_YLA
that's all

thanxxxxxx bro 4 this nice topic
May God bess an' Guide u to the right path

I want to teach my students how to live this life on earth,
To face its struggle and its strife and improve their worth.
Not just the lesson in a book or how the rivers flow,
But how to choose the proper path wherever they may go.
To understand eternal truth and know the right from wrong,
And gather all the beauty of a flower and a song.
For if I help the world to grow in wisdom and in grace,
Then, I shall feel that I have won and I have filled my place.
And so I ask my guidance, God, that I may do my part,
For character and confidence and happiness of heart.

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المشاركة الأصلية كتبت بواسطة hot-meme=girl

okay now is my sweeeeeeeeet comment

http://forum.brg8.com/images/smilies...edding_prv.gif


let's see
http://t0.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:A...Y__O1vwOKzK68o
bro Ejetme3y there is 2 expectations 4 love befor marraje

1- If u mean that " the lover know his beloved but they in reallity don't contact i mean dont talk to each other ...... an' plz ejetma3y don't laugh at this point coz..... it maybe their love grows from their childhood and existed to their adulthood >>>>>> for example, my brother loved my cousin from their childhood but when she became an adult i mean in the age of marrage she agreed a proposel of marrige an' really it was a huge shock that my brother ever recevied wallahy it was so so hard on him ....don't know what happened to him when he knew her engagement regarding to that she also shared him the love I mean..... puting his first letter every where an' in every thing also she wrote it in her hand an' so on......we all knew her feelings toward my brother
an' my brother declared his willing to get marrige from her to the whole family ,but it didn't work
>>>>> but wallahy they never talked to each other
an' now she's preparing for her wedding from that man....an' my poor brother trying to forget her
wish the best life 4 her an' 4 my brother
in contrast, my cousin loves his cousin from their childhood an' at last they got marrage>>>>hahahaa what this lovely family


So , i think this kind of love may last an' secceed an' may not

2-the second one is, if she\he knew each other from the internet or anything like that i entirelly don't agree with this point an' i'm sure this kind of love won't last or existe ever ever ever

i agree with the love after marrage
an' if they wanna know each other as well there is that period after the engagement an' befor the marrage
i think it's engh to gave all of the the chance to know each other

http://t2.gstatic.com/images?q=tbn:A...2nrR8M6CPF_YLA
that's all

thanxxxxxx bro 4 this nice topic
May God bess an' Guide u to the right path

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Why you ask me or didn’t laugh ? looooool
Hot meme … also in my family we have like this kind of love growing from childhood and existed to their adulthood with no contact... no talking to each other etc.. Exactly like your brother story and all family members know that .but some of them are continue until getting marriage in the end . Some are failed
For second one I am not totally with you because I have some friend’s maybe 3 getting marriage from the internet or any thing like that so it depended of the honest trust etc… 0


the good sentence

if they wanna know each other as well there is that period after the engagement an' before the marriage

Thanks for your comment and I like your pictures you posted

Your more than welcome sis

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المشاركة الأصلية كتبت بواسطة Teacher-soiylam

I want to teach my students how to live this life on earth,
To face its struggle and its strife and improve their worth.
Not just the lesson in a book or how the rivers flow,
But how to choose the proper path wherever they may go.
To understand eternal truth and know the right from wrong,
And gather all the beauty of a flower and a song.
For if I help the world to grow in wisdom and in grace,
Then, I shall feel that I have won and I have filled my place.
And so I ask my guidance, God, that I may do my part,
For character and confidence and happiness of heart.

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thanks and no comment

after I BELIVE