how can u change ur life instead of letting life change u

Change is inevitable. And yet, it’s very easy to get caught up in change and let it pull you along, like a stick in a river being swept away by the current. Instead of making conscious choices, one day you discover that you’re living a life shaped primarily by change rather than by choice.....

SO i think there are Steps for Taking Control of the Changes in Your Life

1. Know What doYou Want.

It’s just common sense that if you don’t know what you want, you don’t stand much of a chance of getting it. Take some time to really think about this. It may be something as specific as a particular position in a particular firm, or as vague as a wish to live in a general region, doing a general kind of work. Sometimes, if you’re not sure of what you want, it’s easier to look at what isn’t working for you in your current life. This can give you a place to start looking for what would make you happier.

2. Know Why You Want It.

Now that you know the “what,” it’s time to work on the “why.” This is important for two reasons. First, knowing why you want something will prevent you from getting what you want in a way that doesn’t actually suit your needs. (If you want to live in the tropics so you can hit the beach every day, it won’t do you any good to move to a land-locked tropical location.) Second, knowing why gives you options if the most obvious routes to satisfying your desires are blocked. As above, it’s sometimes easier to determine why you want something by laying out why you don’t like about what you currently have.

3. Quality Your Choices.

When change of curs - a career change, health issues, an inheritance, etc. - rate your options through the lens of the “what” and “why” above. This is often harder than it first appears. A great career move may seem like an obvious “yes,” until you pick it apart and realize it takes you further away from your desire to work with people in need and involves a lot of travel, which you loathe. A job that involves a pay cut and a loss of social status may actually prove to be far and away the best choice, if it’s a better fit for your goals. Without a clear vision of what you want and why, however, you could easily be persuaded to take a better-looking offer that is entirely unsuited to your needs

hope u enjoy reading

Reemo0o0

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you're really active
thanks for all your efforts
great topic
yours Enemy

it is very nice topic
sometimes we change, but without realizing that
thank uso much my dear sister for this amazing topic

RemoOo

My sweet sister

First of all, we all miss you here

Hope you all the luck in your study

and the person with strong self-esteam won't let anything change him/her

Be always blessed dear

Thanks for such a great topic

It has the RemoOo falvoure inside it

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المشاركة الأصلية كتبت بواسطة عدو اليأس

you're really active
thanks for all your efforts
great topic
yours Enemy

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you are welcome my dear

thanks 4 ur passing


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المشاركة الأصلية كتبت بواسطة rose rani

it is very nice topic
sometimes we change, but without realizing that
thank uso much my dear sister for this amazing topic

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yes exactly ,, we must to change our self to better as soon as possible :guy face (61):


thank u my sis

wish u the best :)

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المشاركة الأصلية كتبت بواسطة SoOoSoOo

RemoOo

My sweet sister

First of all, we all miss you here

Hope you all the luck in your study

and the person with strong self-esteam won't let anything change him/her

Be always blessed dear

Thanks for such a great topic

It has the RemoOo falvoure inside it

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welcome my dearest sister soso :smile (101):

yep .. I'm ok with my school ,, I passed all my examination this is the important thing lol

me too I miss u and I miss all my brothers here :smile (101):

thank u sweety 4 ur passing

love yaaaaaaa :)

u are definitely right

and always follow this wisdom



i could not wait the success so, I deicided to go for it



thank you Reama

[CENTER]Dear Reema, your topic is great.
It reminds me of the saying:
What do you work for?
Who do you suffer for?
If the answer satisfies you,
then, you musn't feel guilty!
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faisal

you are welcome my brother


special miss

thank u sweety 4 ur passing

accept my Regards

thanks dear Reema



so lovely to share

so nice soso

it is great words

God blessing you


regards

thank u dear sisters for ur passing

I'm really thankful 4 ya


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tahnk u for this great topic

but I still think that make change in ur life is so difficult

and sometimes you may change to the worst

sorry Can life change our ife?
and is the change positive or negative ?
or can we choose ?
????????


dadi

thank you so much
its a great topic
i`v enjoyed it alot