~ How to kill your mother-in-law ~

How to Kill your mother-in-law



This is an ancient Chinese story. When a girl in ancient China was married, she usually lived with and served her husband and mother-in-law. When Mrs. XXX married her husband, she found that she could not stand the daily criticism of her mother-in-law. She decided to do something. She came to a herbal shop and talked with the owner of the store, who also happened to be a friend of her father.

She said: "Mr. YYY, I cannot stand any more of my mother-in-law's temper. She has driven me crazy. I wonder if you can help me secretly, as a best friend of my father, and I will pay you well."

"What do you want me to do?" Mr. YYY replied. "I wonder if you could sell me some poison which I can use to poison my mother-in-law, and solve my problem?" She asked. After a long time, he said: "Sure, I can help you. However, you must understand two things. First, you cannot poison your mother-in-law in a quick way. People will notice that and realize what you have done. I must give you some herbs which will kill her slowly without being noticed. Second, in order to avoid suspicion, from now on you must control your temper, learn to respect her, love her, obey her, and serve her patiently. Do these things and nobody will suspect you once she dies."

Naturally, Mrs. XXX agreed with what the herbalist said and took the herbs home, mixing them into her mother-in-law's food daily. She learned to control her temper, to serve her, and show her respect. When she noticed the change in her daughter-in-law's attitude, her mother-in-law also changed, and started to love her in return. After six months, the relationship between these two women had grown to be so close they were like an actual mother and daughter. One day, Mrs. XXX came to see the herbalist and said: "Please, for heaven's sake, please save my mother-in-law from the poison I have been giving her for the last six months. I do not want to kill her anymore. She has become the most understanding mother-in-law that I could ever find."

The herbalist smiled and answered: "Do not worry. I never gave you any poison. What I gave you was simply some herbs for nourishment. The poison was in your mind and now you have erased it by yourself."

You can see from this story that it is very easy to see and criticize the behavior and attitude of another person, while it can be almost impossible to see your own. Many times you will find that once you have changed, the whole world changes with you, and you will become the happiest person in the entire world.

You will only gain the respect of others when you learn how to respect them in return ...


with my best regards to you all ...

thanx j.j 4 this useful story

i like it so much

it's over

first of all, let me say welcome dear in our lovely & cozy home ...

I'm so happy to have you here and to hear that you liked the story ..

thanks 4 passing by and reading ..

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I always say to myself that you can only

kill others by kindness

J.J

What I love in you is that you have the ability to put us in different moods

While reading your topics we know for sure that we can laugh , think , enjoy , and get a great benefit

So million thanks for you dear sis

Dear enigma ...

after reading your nice and daer words , I'm really speechless ...

believe honey it's a great honor for me to hear such a thing from our dear supervisor ...

thanks a million sweety ...

May Allah bless you & grant you happiness 4 ever ..

Don't judge too quickly

This phrase might get along with the story you shared in two different matters

The 1st one: when she went to the herbalist to poison her mother in law

The 2nd one: when she thought that she really did poison her , while the poison was in her mind, her mother in law was so kind to her though


It's a meaningful story , lies a wisdom behind it


Great choice dear sister

I really thank you a lot for such wonderful story you shared with us

God bless ya

Dear Meant to be ...


You're definitly right brother ...

we shouldn't judge poeple quickly or by their appearances ...

I'm so gald that you passed here and that you liked the story ...

thanks again ...

Dear j j

it's a beautiful story full of wisdom

Thanx honey

RoSeMaRy

you are as naughty as the herbalist loooooool
i thought he is really want to help killing that mother hehehehe
the prescription was allright
and i was waiting to hear good news
ha ha ha
naughty TTR

looooooooool


JJ

you always bring such tricks

you are a tricky girl


i DO ENJOY THIS STORY

thanx for the rose that brought it to here
or wrote in here

but if you want the truth really some mothers -in-law need to be killed they bring so many harm to the children of a step-wife mother
if i can say that lol

but i like the way the story ended

waiting for more from you sweety

bey bey

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Hi ,

You always come up with wondeful stories .. I just wonder where you get them from ...

The story has taught me a lot of lessons ... We should always think before we react ....

Thank you so much for the story... Please , keep up the great work