I believe every person has his own way in loving people around him/her. This creates the aesthetic spirit of love so making a checklist or a guideline for others often is worthless
Thanks
Love is both an action and a feeling. The action of love generates a blissful feeling called by the same ****. When the action stops, the blissful feeling is replaced with pain. Every person is capable of great love (and its opposite, fear, which generates all painful emotions such as hate, greed and jealousy).
While there are many different ways to define love and there are many different ways to love someone (or even yourself), here is a general guide to loving
Steps:
1 - Say it. When you say the words "I Love You", they should carry with them the desire to show someone that you love them, not what you simply want to feel. When you say it, make sure you really mean it and are willing to do anything for that special person.
2 - Empathize. Put yourself in someone else's shoes. Rather than impose your own expectations or attempt to control them, to understand how they feel, where they come from, and who they are. Realize how they could also love you back just as well.
3 - Love unconditionally. If you cannot love another person without attaching stipulations, then it is not love at all, but deep-seated opportunism (one who makes the most of an advantage, often unmindful of others). If your interest is not in the other person as such, but rather in how that person can enhance your experience of life, then it is not unconditional. If you have no intention of improving that person’s life, or allowing that person to be themselves and accepting them as they are, and not who you want them to be, then you are not striving to love them unconditionally.
4 - Expect nothing in return. That doesn't mean you should allow someone to mistreat or undervalue you. It means that giving love does not guarantee receiving love. Try loving just for the sake of love. Realize that someone may have a different way of showing his or her love for you; do not expect to be loved back in exactly the same way.
5 - Realize it can be lost. If you realize that you can lose the one you love, then you have a greater appreciation of what you have. Think how lucky you are to have someone to love. Don't make an idol of the person you love. This will place them under undue pressure and will likely result in you losing them
Never stop loving. Even if you have been hurt before you should not stop giving love
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اللهم اجعلنا نتنفس الرضـــا حبا ...حتى يشعر القلب بالأرتياح
I believe every person has his own way in loving people around him/her. This creates the aesthetic spirit of love so making a checklist or a guideline for others often is worthless
Thanks
Beyond Words
you may stop if s.one hurts u badly
O Allah, Pray on our Prophet Muhammad, when the stars appear, when the clouds intertwine, when the light appears, when the day and night follow each other in succession. O Allah, pray on Muhammad, the healer and the medicine of our hearts and bodies, the light of our eyes. O Allah, pray on our beloved Muhammad, our intercessor, the kind and merciful, who told us about his Generous Lord: Allah Sends a hundred
every one has his/her own steps in love. No one can teach others ''steps of love'' this is my idea about love.
thank you for your topic.
thank you my friends for your comments
they add a lot to the topic
اللهم اجعلنا نتنفس الرضـــا حبا ...حتى يشعر القلب بالأرتياح
Falling in Love With Love
I weave with brightly colored strings
To keep my mind off other things
So, ladies, let your fingers dance
And keep your hands out of romance
Lovely witches
Let the stitches
Keep your fingers under control
Cut the thread, but leave
The whole heart whole
Merrry maids can sew and sleep
Wives can only sew and weep
Falling in love with love
Is falling for make-believe
Falling in love with love
Is playing the fool
Caring too much is juvenile fancy
Learning to trust is just
For children in school
I fell in love with love one night
When the mood was full
I was unwise with eyes
Unable to see
I fell in love with love
With love everlasting
But love fell out with me
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love sometimes drew to pains to really deep pains
we truelly miss the innocent love ,the reall love, these days
but in fact, there is a love which really cannot fail
the true love,pure love, which comes from deep heart so if u shared it with someone hold it strongly an' don't let anything, anything to destroy it or break it
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love people from all ur heart an' dont wait the same from them
did u ask ur self once
an' why
surely lots of people love u and why ????i
the answer simply is that
cuz we are as Muslims don't love people for the sake of getting advantages from them
we love them 4 there personalities, morals, ......etc
thanx honey for ur sweet topic
love u all my sweet freinds
very nice word , thanks alot
abughararah
learning to trust is just
for children at school
Maybe but how is our life is going to be without trusting each other or falling in love, it is true sometimes we fall in love with the wrong person . love is blind but it will never make you a fool, it will make you more sensitive to everything around, and that what real love dose.
thank you for this lovely poem
التعديل الأخير تم بواسطة ● Ṡeяεиiτч . . ☆ ; 21-04-2011 الساعة 01:43 AM
اللهم اجعلنا نتنفس الرضـــا حبا ...حتى يشعر القلب بالأرتياح
From my own experience, I've found that to love is something beautiful & somehow easy
But to be loved this is the difficult matter
What a great blessing to be a beloved person
اللهم اغفر لي ولوالديَ
اللهم عافهم واعف عنه .. وأكرم نزلهم .. ووسع مدخلهم
واغسلهم بالماء والثلج والبرد
اللهم اجعلني لهم قرة عين يوم يقوم الأشهاد
اللهم آمين .. اللهم آمين .. اللهم آمين
اللهم ارضى عني وارضني ياااااااا رب
I love and can't sopping loving
so i love ur topic very much i read it by heart
Always remember to forget
The troubles that have passed away
But never forget to remember
The blessing that come each day
very great words
thanks alot
really I like to read in such things because I got engaged. thank you.
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