The way I see it. revenge is for weak people yet forgetting or forgiving is for the people who are dump enough to believe in the goodness of bad people and second chances.
Forgiveness…!i
True forgiveness is probably one of the hardest things to achieve as a human being because it means both acknowledging that we have been wronged by another person
And understanding that it is better to let go for our sakes and theirs .
For some of us it is easier just to forget about it and get on with their lives .
Of course talking about forgiveness may be hard to swallow for those victimised by others .
What do you think
We bag our hatred and vengeful feelings and slang them over our shoulder for the rest of our lives …
Revenge
Or
Forget and actively seek ways of healing those wounds
your choice as a victim
To forgive ….. or To forget …..
**Wait for your comments**
The way I see it. revenge is for weak people yet forgetting or forgiving is for the people who are dump enough to believe in the goodness of bad people and second chances.
Forgiving isn't making the other person better, its making yourself better. Forgiving someone comes from inside yourself, and it doesn't mean that you don't learn a lesson and let that person continue to hurt
The way I do it is when I think about why that person hurt me is what lesson I learned from it, what I can do to prevent getting hurt in the future,and I know that it is now in the past and then moving on to the rest of my life which is ahead of me is more important than what is behind me
forgetting is another story that comes with time :-)...........L
May God Maintain a Smile On Ur Face forever..
Salam - PEACE <3
انتهت لحظاتى الجميلة بينكم...
كما ينتهى أى شئ جميل فى هذه الحياة...
اعلموا أن وداعى لكم رغما عنّى
و لظروف اقوى منّي!!!
((( فتذكّرونى دائماً بالخير )))
و إن كنت اسأت لاأحدكم فليسامحنى
و إن كنت قصرت مع أحدكم فليعذر تقصيرى
واحملوا لي فى قلوبكم كل ما هو طيّب
وأخيراً
ساأرحل بجسدى وأترك قلبى بينكم
و لااااأعلم
هل لنا لقاء آخر أم أن هذا اليوم آخر عهدى بكم
وداااااااعاً
مس ثوت
when you forgive you will feel peace inside your heart and then
you will be able to move on with your life
اللهم اجعلنا نتنفس الرضـــا حبا ...حتى يشعر القلب بالأرتياح
Good topic sense
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and I think not every one deserve it
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but it's so good to forgive especially
when you are able to take revenge
December, 10 2015
Yeh ..forgiveness is so not my thing :P
if you make a mistake ..you own up to your mistakes
actions and consequences
thats what life is all about
:)
Forgiveness is a gift you give to yourself and not something you do FOR someone else. It helps you move forward. It means choosing to let go and move on.
It is the key to your own happiness and the power that can change misery into happiness.
As Muslims , It is necessary to base our relations on forgiveness. Forgiving each other, even forgiving one’s enemies is one of the most important Islamic rules. In the Qur’an Allah has described the Believers as “those who avoid major sins and acts of indecencies and when they are angry they forgive.” (al-Shura 42:37) and In one Hadith the Prophet -peace be upon him- said that Allah has commanded him about nine things. One of them he mentioned was “that I forgive those who do wrong to me.”
Great topic
I enjoyed a lot reading it
Thanks for sharing it with us
very nice topic >>> and very nice cimments ........... for me forgiveness has alwayes been my way in treating people it makes me feel better all the time ... , but i've faced lately a persone that alwayes try to distroy my life and i am doing my best not to make her win and at the sametime treat her with what she diserves >>
*Sense*
It's a healthy feeling to have a light heart
The perfect way to have it is by freeing oneself from
dark feelings like hatred, revenge and beering grudges toward others
Once we reach forgiveness, our souls will fly so high and freely
I loved the image it's expressive
Thanks sweetie
^_^
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" اللهم استعملني في طاعتك "
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أستغفر الله العظيم التواب الرحيم لذنبي
وللمسلمين والمسلمات و المؤمنين والمؤمنات
الأحياء منهم والأموات إلى يوم الدين
you should be too proud of these bad feelings which bear the black thoughts
you should live in peace life to be healthy and effective
thanks alot for such fabulous post which I can describe as a piece of cake
all the best
As Muslims , It is necessary to base our relations on forgiveness. Forgiving each other, even forgiving one’s enemies is one of the most important Islamic rules. In the Qur’an Allah has described the Believers as “those who avoid major sins and acts of indecencies and when they are angry they forgive.” (al-Shura 42:37) and In one Hadith the Prophet -peace be upon him- said that Allah has commanded him about nine things. One of them he mentioned was “that I forgive those who do wrong to me.”
I think that we should forgive everyone
becouse if we do some thing wrong we want from others forgive us
Thankyou sooooooooooooooooooooo much
this topic is very sensitive and not all people are able to do it but the speak about it is very easy >>> but how to do it
if the allah himself is forgives to the guilty people so we must to forgive the people and I know your heart may be broken from this people but I say try and try...... to has pure heart from every thing .. and to become happy
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أميرة بأخلاقها
& رنيم &
مسك الحياة
bananajuice
Many many many Thanks for passing by
and for your nice comments
its truth what you all say about forgiving others but
for me I have a different way in
forgiveness
To all those who doing their best to hurt me
whither you hearing me or not I will pray God
to heal my injures and
I will forgive all your mistakes
instead do me a favor and
***Dont Show Me Your Face Again***
thnxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
[B]I think that we must be careful when we talk about Forgiveness because it may be missunderstood as weakness.We forgive when we are strong and when we can hurt others we hurt us. But we ARE WEAK when we pretend to forgive because we can do nothing so forgiveness depends on where you stand and what can but you won"t do[/B]
TRUE 100 % brother
I'm agree with each word you wrote ... Really not all the people
deserve forgiveness, because they understand it as weakness.. & they remain hurting you regardless your feelings... But, there are still someones who deserve my forgiveness always & forever even they repeat their mistakes again & again
They are my own & I can't live without them
اللهم اغفر لي ولوالديَ
اللهم عافهم واعف عنه .. وأكرم نزلهم .. ووسع مدخلهم
واغسلهم بالماء والثلج والبرد
اللهم اجعلني لهم قرة عين يوم يقوم الأشهاد
اللهم آمين .. اللهم آمين .. اللهم آمين
اللهم ارضى عني وارضني ياااااااا رب
May Allah bless you and reward you , for your efforts.
التعديل الأخير تم بواسطة ● Ṡeяεиiτч . . ☆ ; 24-09-2011 الساعة 04:37 PM
صَحِيحْ { حِنَّا انْتِهِينَا } بَسْ صَدِّقْنِي
وَاللّه إِنِّكْ تِبْقَى { هُوَى رُوحِي } وْ غَالِيهَا
فَارَقْـتِنِي وْ ضَحْكِتِكْ عَيَّتْ تِفَارِقْنِي
وَاللّه يِلْعَنْ أُبُو الفَرْقَا وْ طَارِيهَا
أَخَافْ لاَ حَبِّنِي غِيرِكْ وْ عَاشَرْنِي
يِشُوفْ صُورِتِكْ فِي عِينِي وْ يُوحِيهَا
( تَبِي تَعْرِفْ وِشْ عَلَى الفَرْقَا مْصَبِّرْنِي
إِنِّكْ بْخِيرْ وْ حَيَاتِكْ مِتْهَنِّي فِيهَا )
تح يا تي /
to foregive
اللهم لك الحمد حمدا يكافيء نعمك ويوافي عطائك ويستزيد فضلك ويستمطر رضوانك
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