What Not to Say About Someone's Appearance

[:lost lady:]

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Some things should never be said―like these phrases. Here, what to say instead

What Not to Say About Someone's Appearance

Don’t say: “You look tired.”
Why: It implies she doesn’t look good.
Instead say: “Is everything OK?” We often blurt the “tired” comment when we get the sense that the other person feels out of sorts. So just ask.



Don’t say: “Wow, you’ve lost a ton of weight!”
Why: To a newly trim person, it might give the impression that she used to look unattractive.
Instead say: “You look fantastic.” And leave it at that. If you’re curious about how she got so svelte, add, “What’s your secret?”



Don’t say: “You look good for your age.”
Why: Anything with a caveat like this is rude. It's saying, "You look great―compared with other old people. It's amazing you have all your own teeth."
Instead say: “You look great.”





Don’t say: “I could never wear that.”
Why: It can be misunderstood as a criticism. (“I could never wear that because it’s so ugly.”)
Instead say: “You look so good in skinny jeans.” If you slip, say something like “I could never wear that…because I wasn’t blessed with your long legs


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Plz leave a commentLost Lady

[M.o_o.N]

You are right my sweet sister
And all these things have to be treated in Arabic as well as English.
Thank you so much for these lines
God bless you ^_^

[نوووووت]

[Homie]

:)
well if the other person was so sensitive
i won't be sayin anything
why !
cause he or she gonna get it wrong whatever i said

[Mr.Last Breath]

That is awesome L.L................may allah bless u >>>>>>>>>Good job and keep it up........Regards

[:lost lady:]

You are right my sweet sister
And all these things have to be treated in Arabic as well as English.
Thank you so much for these lines
God bless you ^_^

Thanx alot for passing by sweety.........May allah bless U

[:lost lady:]

Thanx alot

[:lost lady:]

:)
well if the other person was so sensitive
i won't be sayin anything
why !
cause he or she gonna get it wrong whatever i said

Thanx alot and I really agree with U

[:lost lady:]

That is awesome L.L................may allah bless u >>>>>>>>>Good job and keep it up........Regards

Mr.L.B I really need Ur support and ur words..........just be with me always ...............Thank you sOoO much .....Ur comment is highly appreciated ........May allah bless u wherever Ur.

[مهـرة الـروح]

my dear lost lady
i agree with you in every word
we should choose a words which will happy the others ...not destroy them

thanx alot my friend..

by the way i missed your comment in my topic..

[August]

well .. I prefer the truth and there will be no hard feelings

[BloumagrieT]

Lost Lady

Being polite and choosing your words when talking to others

is a good thing and it's the way should be used cause we're all Muslims

and Muslims ought to be good and deal kindly with others

Thank you sister for such a good topic

[الاسيرة]

we must treated people in polite way

but

i have aproblem that i am always speak what is in my heart with out thinking about others feeling

thanks for your advises

:)

[:lost lady:]

Thanx alot for ur comments