when you are so different .. how could u deal with everythin?

[mitchie torres]

Hi all

how you doing ??

well ,, i apologize "previously" for my further mistakes and all of that
but just get over them as u havent seen them !
LOL watever

okay ..
actually im not so sure if my problem considered as a serious issue !
but here you go !

i live in a family which ive never felt that i belong to
we dont have any thin in common .. we dont share things
not only my family = dad \ mum \ bro sis \ ETc
i mean like .. aunt uncle
and so on

i have an ideological orientation which is so differ then theirs !
PERSAY .. we are from two different worlds which may never met !

i dont know
well ok .. thats not problem but
as long as im so different ..i would never be able to get along with them
and i am not getting along with them at the meanwhile !
though , they have forced me to get married,, as they say if its not gonna be now .. it have to be later !!

for me .. im not so interested to get married whether now or later
coz as i told you .. the enviroment where i live .. never suits me
so .. i would never be able to make it
i would never be able to build that social network .. Watever :\

i dont know
is this problem ?

[البـارع]

sure, it's a serious problem.. millions of people feel of that, the feel of unfamiliarity with surroundings

so, it's your job first to do your best.. and try to be free in your life... but be enough logical

good luck

[umm4]

sure it is aproblem which you should find a solution to .the solution seems to me for you to get married this way you will have a new envioroment to attune to

[ACME]

a perplexing matter

Listening to one person in an argument is always misleading
God forbid
I am not accusing you of lying
But you did not write your parents' point of view
What is their opinion
Why do they want you to marry forcibly

Think of the consequence of every step you take
My advice to you is to
try to reconciliate with your environment
first yourself , then your family
Go and marry and build up your new life
strengthen your relationship with Allah
and ask Him for guidance

[rose rani]

to tell the truth
i have had the same problem before
but now i am good with my family
at the firt i thought that they do not love
and i could not get along with them and so they could
then I asked them about their point after that
I thought for a long time and you
know the majority
of the mistakes were from me
so you can listen to them carefully and
think deeply
and you will find the sloution but you need to start first